Sleepolove : What Your Sleeping Habits Say About Your Relationship



You're laying in bed with your significant other, and you just so happen to be spooning them. Have you ever wondered what this means? Actually, whether you're a male or female changes the meaning of the spooning position. Neat huh? But what if you're not a spooner? According to relationship psychologist Corrine Sweet, "During sleep, you cannot fake your body language. This is the time when you are honest, vulnerable and your sleeping position can reveal a lot about your relationship."

Click through the pages to figure out what your position means. 

1. The Spoon


Ah, the spoon: the most common position for all couples, especially for people married three-to-five years. According to psychiatrist Samuel Dunkell, "When a woman assumes the posterior position, it may indicate she is the more giving partner or that he needs special nurturing." The Spoon provides the most amount of contact with your partner, ensuring physically closeness. It's not necessarily erotic, instead, it's "a comforting, safe cocoon," says Shirley P. Glass, psychologist and martial therapist. 

2. The Honeymoon Hug



The most intimate of sleeping positions, this is less-common alternative to The Spoon tends to occur during periods where intense feelings are present, such as after lovemaking or the beginning of a relationship. Some couples maintain it throughout their relationship, but, according to Elizabeth Flynn Campbell, a New York psychotherapist, "[the couple] could be overly enmeshed, too dependent on each other to sleep apart."